Going with the Flow

It is great to have time with someone you want to be close with. It is a good feeling where both of you are on the same page and nothing goes wrong. Things are simpler this way, and when you have no worries of getting hurt when you have other things to worry about.

We know it would not always be the same case in the long run. Either of you may have not much time to talk or even send text messages, because the work load or busy with your own personal lives. But it doesn’t mean that you care less for the person, it’s just that there are times that you are caught in things that you cannot avoid. Keep a safe distance, but not too far until when the other person feels left alone in the dark. Keep in touch once in a while.

There would also be times that the pages of your book may be torn, and things may not go as you planned it. Misunderstanding, miscommunication, and arguments would arise, it is unavoidable. When these things happen, keep in mind that it’s not the person you are angry with but on what the other person did. Don’t dig deep and look for old faults and mistakes, rather keep in mind what the issue now and find a solution to solve it.

People change, it’s either in a good way or bad, but the old feelings may still linger from deep inside when you truly loved someone. It’s just keeping your hopes high if the other person would feel the same way as you do.