Now, Look At This!

I better stop what I am doing now, before it becomes worse for me at the end of the day. I am exerting too much effort to someone who is nowhere close to loving me in return. I better stop thinking that it would work because it wont, so before I hurt even more, I'll make a full stop and just enjoy myself to the fullest. I'll keep myself busy for me and not for people who makes me feel only loved because I am needed. I am just such a fool to let my heart do the thinking for me and not my brain.


I read this post in a Facebook page...

"Stop calling people who don't call you. Stop visiting people who don't know where you live. Stop making time for people who don't have time for you. Stop spending on people who don't spend on you. Stop thinking about people who don't think about you. 

You will make yourself emotionally bankrupt. You can love someone from a distance and I'm not just talking about romantic relationships but all relationships; friends, family, boyfriends or girlfriends. Treat people the way they treat you and stop over exerting yourself and giving love where it's not returned. 

Life is difficult enough without having to beg people for their love and attention. The least you can do for yourself is surround yourself with people who genuinely love and care about you. Most importantly surround yourself with people that don't see you as an option. There's nothing worse than people who treat you like you are replaceable."


A lesson I learned from my past relationship, a lesson that I need to keep in mind when loving the next person in my life. Because in the end, I'll just be hurt and they would be happy with their lives. So, in the meantime, I will spend my life in an abyss until I find someone who can genuinely love and care for me.