Putting All Your Heart... is Wrong!

I learned a valuable lesson in my career and relationship. Though it seems not right to hear but it's all true for me. Putting all your heart into your career and relationship is all what I did for the past 10 years in my life. I mastered the art of loving your job and loving someone with all my heart. It was I thought that brought me happiness and joy all throughout, but it wasn't.

It was wrong for me to put all my heart in my career and relationship as it failed me. Neglecting the life I should have, with all 'what if' and 'what not' that came barging to me. I put a lot of effort in my career and I know for a fact that it would not be long that I would not be wanted by the company I helped in so many ways. But then again, I made a mistake that maybe an unforgivable thing to some.

I never had fell in love with someone before than that of my last relationship, and I was stupid that putting all my heart into it will give me happiness and joy in my personal life. I gave everything I had and still paying for the mistakes that I did. It ended because of me and of people who were not even in the relationship and eventually I was left behind. With all that I sacrificed, it was all gone. My career and relationship was gone.

I had to start anew, with my career and relationship. I now have a career path that I am pursuing. Hoping that it would be a success for the dreams I had since I was young. Something I can put a piece of my heart into to enjoy my life, career, and maybe a new trusting relationship.

What I learned, was not to give all your heart into everything you do... because in the end if it fails I would suffer and be alone.